VioletDates Reviews 143

TrustScore 3.5 out of 5

3.6

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Review summary

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Evaluating 83 reviews, most reviewers were somewhat happy with their experience overall. Customers generally appreciate the staff, describing them as respectful and helpful, especially with billing inquiries. Many people find the interactions on the platform to be genuine and engaging, with several users enjoying their conversations and the ease of connecting with others. However, a significant number of people were dissatisfied with the website and its pricing structure. Reviewers frequently mention that the site is too expensive, requiring payment for basic features like sending replies or viewing messages, and that the payment model is geared towards maximizing profit. Some customers also felt that the user experience was questionable, with concerns about transparency, the inability to exchange personal details, and concerns about the authenticity of some profiles and interactions.

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Website

Consumers find the website to be a negative experience, with many reviewers expressing strong dissatisfaction... See more

Staff

Customers had positive experiences with staff, highlighting their helpfulness, respect, and engaging... See more

Price

Reviewers express strong dissatisfaction with the pricing structure, consistently describing it as too... See more

User experience

People report ambiguous experiences with the user experience. Some customers found the platform easy to use... See more

Payment

Reviewers highlight negative aspects of payment. Customers express significant dissatisfaction, noting that... See more

Reviews shaping this summary

Rated 3 out of 5 stars

bunch of beautiful women there. Too bad all their profiles are professionally done because they were purchased from the stock photography house. Great place just to chat, because the women seem to be... See more

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

Lots of interactions.. I mean I dont use online apps but its a lot to handle or its ok.. but for any little move.. like sending a reply or mail you need to pay. Its not for having sonekind of social... See more

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

I'm not sure how I'm feeling about site ? I didn't realize all the men are not in the US ? It would make it very difficult to meet for a date when I'm in Arizona USA, and he's in Ukraine ,?

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Rated 3 out of 5 stars

I am new on the platform but I found it interesting cas immediately I was connected and got to start chatting to my matches

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Company details

  1. Dating Service

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Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally. Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time. Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life. Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.


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3.6

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TrustScore 3.5 out of 5

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Rated 5 out of 5 stars

For the moment i explore

For the moment i explore, but this site is funny

10 March 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Murielle,

Hope the exploring brings plenty more good surprises along the way.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

The quality of people

The quality of people

7 March 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Kobus,

Really glad the people you've met have made a good impression.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 2 out of 5 stars

The pop up sign with credits is just…

The pop up sign with credits is just awful..Need one day to fix the payment! Also do not have any guarantee that the person behind is not a fake. It is my first time here and I think I have already seen some fakes...I am just waiting for the moment when the person will ask for the money..Not trusting this site.

4 March 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Jane,

Many user profiles are verified according to our Terms of Services to support a safe environment for communication. If you encounter behavior that raises concerns or appears unusual, you can report it so the situation can be reviewed. For assistance or questions about your experience on the platform, please contact our support team at support@violetdates.help.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 1 out of 5 stars

The users send ready-made texts,emails…

The users send ready-made texts,emails about nothing, send loads of photos/videos which is tottally annoying and the purpose is to make you spend more and more. Don't be naive. It has no end. Definitely not recommend!!!

2 March 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Kinga,

VioletDates is an online communication platform for building online connections between people. Our platform prioritizes safety, transparency, and trust for all users, supported by clear guidelines and features designed to maintain a respectful environment.

If you have concerns about specific messages or activity on the platform, please contact our support team at support@violetdates.help so the situation can be reviewed. We’re here to help and committed to resolving any issues.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

Love to talk with somebody

L'honnêteté dans les conversations.

28 February 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Helene,

Happy to know you're finding great people here, that's exactly the kind of vibe we aim for!

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 3 out of 5 stars

I dont like crecits

23 February 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Natasha,

We aim to provide a secure and well-supported environment, and certain paid features help us keep that standard of care. If you’d like more information or help with using these features, please contact our support team at support@violetdates.help.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 5 out of 5 stars

I love love

Wow! These guys ❤️ really know how to speak to a woman 👠 I'm looking forward to more communication 💕

18 February 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Rachael,

We're grateful for the feedback and glad you had a positive experience worth sharing.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 3 out of 5 stars

Lots of interactions but..

Lots of interactions.. I mean I dont use online apps but its a lot to handle or its ok.. but for any little move.. like sending a reply or mail you need to pay.
Its not for having sonekind of social interaction online.. it's money money minded likely.

21 February 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Cakeîssimo,

We aim to provide a secure and well-supported environment, and certain paid features help us keep that standard of care. If you’d like more information or help with using these features, please contact our support team at support@violetdates.help.

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

Rated 4 out of 5 stars

Meeting and chatting is great

Meeting and chatting is great, but one need to pay and that I don't have.

20 February 2026
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Reply from VioletDates

Hi Vicky,

Really glad the connections and conversations have been enjoyable! If you'd like help finding the best credit option for your budget, our team is happy to assist at support@violetdates.help. Hope you find a way to keep the conversations going!

Take care,
Claire from VioletDates

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