bunch of beautiful women there. Too bad all their profiles are professionally done because they were purchased from the stock photography house. Great place just to chat, because the women seem to be... See more
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Lots of interactions.. I mean I dont use online apps but its a lot to handle or its ok.. but for any little move.. like sending a reply or mail you need to pay. Its not for having sonekind of social... See more
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I'm not sure how I'm feeling about site ? I didn't realize all the men are not in the US ? It would make it very difficult to meet for a date when I'm in Arizona USA, and he's in Ukraine ,?
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I am new on the platform but I found it interesting cas immediately I was connected and got to start chatting to my matches
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Violetdates is an online dating platform designed for those who value deep connection and heartfelt conversations. Whether you're looking to add warmth to your day or enjoy light romantic communication, Violetdates creates the space to let those moments bloom naturally. Our platform focuses on helping people connect at their own pace, without pressure or expectations. Here, you can share thoughts, express yourself freely, and enjoy the experience of talking to like-minded individuals. It’s about enjoying meaningful exchanges and seeing where the moment leads — one message at a time. Every conversation is a chance to discover someone who brings positivity into your routine. With Violetdates, romance unfolds gently, bringing joy, comfort, and a touch of excitement into your life. Join Violetdates to enjoy thoughtful communication in a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you're here to connect with someone new or simply to explore romantic conversations, this is your place to feel inspired and enjoy every moment as it comes. Let romance bloom.
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3.6
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Scam Scam Scam
Scam Scam Scam - it’s just like a pokie machine, you have to keep feeding it coins to buy credits to chat. The answers are automated. Your questions will never been answered. Exchanging personal details to chat off the site is blocked. You’ll never meet anyone.
11 December 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Gabrielle,
We take feedback like this seriously. VioletDates operates as an online communication platform where certain interactive features are accessed through a credit-based system. This setup helps us maintain a secure, stable, and well-supported environment for users, including platform upkeep and user support services.
If any part of how the platform works felt unclear or raised concerns during your experience, our support team can provide clarification and review specific questions. You can contact them directly at support@violetdates.com.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
This is only a chat site so many…
This is only a chat site so many beautiful women even older than 60 are incredible but not Real £20 to open a picture (yes crazy price) £1500 for contact details deliberately priced so you don't buy because they don't exist young beautiful girls in their 20s mail you really they want a guy in his 60s? this is a scam site spend many thousands of bucks but no real meetings are possible SAVE YOUR MONEY FIND A GENUINE SITE THIS IS A SCAM SITE BE WARNED STAY AWAY!!
11 December 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Reverend,
VioletDates is a communication platform for building online connections between people. The platform follows clear usage guidelines, and many profiles go through verification according to our Terms of Services to help maintain a secure environment. Activity levels, messaging patterns, and communication preferences can vary between users, as everyone chooses how they want to interact on the platform.
If you’ve come across anything that seems unusual or have concerns about account activity or service features, please reach out to us at support@violetdates.com so we can review the details directly. Our team is here to look into any issues you report and provide support where needed.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Learning about someone on line
The person I am chatting with seems calm, sincere and easy to chat witj
8 December 2025
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Reply from VioletDates
Hi Debbie,
Thank you for sharing your experience. We’re happy to hear you’re connecting with someone who feels calm, sincere, and easy to talk with.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Talking openly and honestly.
7 December 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
Thanks for sharing this. We’re glad you’re enjoying open conversations.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Meeting someone will cost you up to €1,200
Dating websites generally allow their clients to exchange contact details if they want to .
On VioletDates, you can never meet in reality, because if you try and send an email address or a phone number to the person that you think you are talking to, outside of the (pay-per-message) website, the site blocks the message.
The other tell-tale is that you can suggest meeting in a city, but the lady never agrees or replies to this approach.
I got chatting to a person whose profile said they were a 62-years old woman, but all the photos in her profile showed a woman about half that age.
I immediately got a sense of unreality.
You (the man) have to pay VioletDate approximately €1,500 to get a womans’s name, telephone number or email. But first, you have to get the woman to send her agreement, however, there is nowhere on the site to do this.
My honest advice, is avoid!
29 November 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Jim,
Our system is designed to protect users’ privacy and safety while providing secure communication opportunities. Many profiles are verified according to our Terms of Services, and we encourage users to report any suspicious activity to support@violetdates.com so we can investigate thoroughly. We aim to create a respectful and safe environment, and your feedback is valuable as we continue improving.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Seems clean, no scammy vibe
Most places like this turn weird after a week. This one’s been chill, no fake accounts, no spam. Just regular people using it. Everyone is so respectful and it makes it easy to open up
13 November 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Brandon,
We’re happy to hear you’re enjoying a respectful environment. Creating a safe space is a top priority for us. Thanks for your kind words!
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
fair pricing compared to others
used a bunch of other sites before and most of them just eat your money. VioletDates is fair enough. you buy credits, use them how you want, I like that I’m not stuck with a useless subscription and I like chatting and pics.
11 November 2025
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Reply from VioletDates
Hi Michael,
Thanks for your feedback. It’s great to hear you appreciate the flexibility of the credit system and the control it gives you over your experience.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
I’m 42
I’m 42, single dad, not really a dating app guy. got curious, joined, and ended up having a few good chats after work. it’s nice to talk to adults who actually listen lol
6 November 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Oscar,
Thanks for sharing your experience. We’re happy you’ve found a comfortable space to have engaging conversations after work. Wishing you many more enjoyable chats ahead.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Saw Violetdates reviews before joining
I didn’t see too many Violetdates reviews around, so figured I’ll just try it myself. Turned out better than I thought, site runs fine, chats don’t bug out and girls actually chat. So far I am enjoying it
27 October 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Elijah,
Thank you for sharing your experience. We’re glad to hear the site runs smoothly and that you’ve enjoyed conversations so far.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Support was chill and fast
had an issue with logging in from another device, sent a quick message, got a reply in maybe two hours or so. dude on support was straight up, no copy lines, just helped me fix it. respect.
1 November 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Isaac,
Thanks for sharing your experience. We’re happy to hear our support team was quick and straightforward in helping you resolve your login issue. Providing effective assistance is very important to us.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Good.
Good.. I like it. So far everyone I’ve talked to seems real. People reply in their own way, some quick, some slow, no copypaste bs. That’s how you know it’s not full of fakes.
28 October 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Christopher,
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, we’re glad you’re enjoying your chats and finding the interactions natural and engaging.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
met some good people here
Didn’t join for anything serious, just wanted to talk a bit. Ended up chatting with a few cute girls I still chat with. nothing fake or weird, just normal conversations. kinda surprised me tbh
30 October 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Kevin,
Thanks for sharing your experience! We’re glad it’s been a positive and comfortable space for you to connect.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Fraudulent
Fraudulent, just a scam preying on men looking for love. Plain and simple
30 October 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Timothy,
Our platform operates under clear Terms of Services and has strict safeguards to prevent fraud or misuse. A lot of profiles are verified, and we continuously work to ensure a safe communication environment for everyone. If you’ve encountered any suspicious behavior, please report it directly or reach out to our support team at support@violetdates.com so they can investigate further.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Just not being able to actually connect…
Just not being able to actually connect in real lifetime situation without money being a issues it grips my ass that it hit me from the start hell Ive not even seen if she truly a female of my liken really
12 October 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi William,
Please note that our platform operates on a credit-based system designed to give users control over which features they choose to use. This helps maintain a secure and well-managed environment for communication. If you’d like guidance on managing your credits or have concerns about a specific profile, feel free to contact our support team at support@violetdates.com.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
WARNING: IF YOU WANT TO BE TAKEN FOR MORE THAN YOU MIGHT HAVE, CONTINUE ON.
This is a warning to other men that have been taken for much money with credits and other expenses. It is a FRAUD site. I've had women answer my questions before, at the same time, I hit send. How can that be unless they are watching what I am typing before hand. I suspect that they are not women but are writing by men. I was able to catch one woman doing that and had no explanatin for it. I had a woman that was coming out to join me and the day I was supposed to pick her up at the airport, she dropped out of the site. This wasn't a short time. I had been talking to her for over 8 months. Needless to say, my savings ran out of tens of thousands of dollars just be writing. She told me she had a job when she arrived with me as a doctor at a local hospital. She told me she was taking exams and qualified as number one with her grades over 4 other people. Her salary was going to be very high and she thought she could get more, so asked for it. And they offered it to her. Half way through the testing her specialty changed. That just dosen't happen. That's when I was guessing she had been lying to me all along. A number of times, I asked how they knew that I was messaging and the reply I always got was they know that I am messaging them. No one could be specific. How often do you see they are online when its the middle of the night at their home. Then they pick up soon after. Believe me and all the others that gave poor reviews.
29 August 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
We take all reports of suspicious behavior seriously and have zero tolerance for fraud or deception on our platform. Please note that the profiles on this platform are verified according to our Terms and Conditions, and we have advanced moderation tools to maintain a safe environment. For any concerns regarding potentially fraudulent activity or unusual behavior, we strongly encourage you to contact our support team directly at support@violetdates.com so they can investigate and provide assistance. Your feedback is important and helps us continue improving the platform’s safety measures.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Great communication
She showed interest. Was not stuck up. Very open and respectful. Honest. Having a heart ❤️ and all the sexiness she can offer.
20 August 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Luis,
Thanks for sharing your experience! It’s wonderful to hear you’ve had such a positive and respectful interaction. We want connections on the platform to feel enjoyable, so your feedback means a lot.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
bunch of beautiful women there
bunch of beautiful women there. Too bad all their profiles are professionally done because they were purchased from the stock photography house. Great place just to chat, because the women seem to be genuine. But don’t try to contact them in person. Every single CONTACT after spending 300–500 dollars is an impersonation. I should give this a lower score but I believed in it for a long time and consequently spent some serious cash that I didn’t have. Maybe I should give it a two but a three is more inappropriate because I believed. You will too for a while. Mark my words.
31 July 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Edward,
The profiles of our users are verified according to our Terms and Conditions, and we are committed to maintaining a safe and respectful environment for communication. If you believe you’ve encountered suspicious activity, please don’t hesitate to report it directly to our support team at support@violetdates.com so we can review it further.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
My main concern on this site is…
My main concern on this site is Transparency is a fundamental principle that involves openness, honesty, and the clear disclosure of information.
This company blocks to stop (something) from reaching someone or something
The lady’s name, telephone number or e mail you will not get.
The women don’t pay for the service but the men do,
A faded fight , give up you are wasting your time and money.
If I was on an island with ten million men and one woman , i would have a better chance of getting a date with the one woman , than this site.
25 July 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi James,
Please note that the way interactions are handled on the platform is shaped by both technical and community standards aimed at maintaining a positive environment for everyone. If you ever feel something seems off or have more questions, feel free to reach out to us at support@violetdates.com. We're here to help.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Very good not hard I've been robbed on…
Very good not hard I've been robbed on sites before it wat a fist for me an yes I'll come back soon waiting for bank card next week again be back soon as
6 July 2025
Unprompted review
Reply from VioletDates
Hi there,
Thank you for the wonderful review! We're truly sorry to hear about your past experiences on other sites, but we’re glad you feel comfortable and safe with us. We’ll be here whenever you're ready to come back — no rush!
If you need anything in the meantime, feel free to reach out to our support team at support@violetdates.com.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
Reply from VioletDates
Hi Stephen,
Thanks for the review! Hope you keep having fun exploring and meeting new people.
Take care,
Claire from VioletDates
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