I Haven’t Met My Soulmate Yet, But I’m on the Right Path❤️🙏
My First 90 Days with Soulmate University ❤️
When I first joined the Soulmate Attraction Method, I honestly didn’t know exactly what I was looking for.
I knew I wanted a relationship and hoped to meet someone special, but I didn’t have a clear picture of what my ideal partner or relationship actually looked like.
Then, within the first week, something started to click.
Through the exercises, coaching and conversations, I suddenly became much clearer about what I was looking for. I started to understand the qualities, values and characteristics that mattered to me and what I wanted my future relationship to look like.
That clarity was one of the first major shifts I experienced.
Over the following 90 days, the programme became about much more than finding someone.
It made me look at myself.
I became more aware of my dating patterns, who I was attracted to, who I was swiping right on, what I was prioritising and whether I was genuinely looking for compatibility or sometimes putting too much emphasis on attraction.
There were definitely moments where I needed to be challenged.
Jacob gave me a lot of time and support throughout the journey, and there were times when I needed someone to challenge my thinking rather than simply tell me what I wanted to hear.
Some of those conversations made me stop and really look at myself.
In a lot of ways, it was about waking up and smelling the coffee ☕️.
And honestly, I needed that.
The support I received helped me see things from a different perspective and recognise areas where I needed to grow. It wasn’t always comfortable, but I think some of the most valuable lessons aren’t necessarily the easiest ones to hear.
I also really appreciated the community aspect. Being around other people who are working on themselves and looking for meaningful relationships made the journey feel less like I was doing this completely on my own.
My faith is a huge part of who I am, and throughout this journey I’ve tried to keep God at the centre of what I’m looking for.
I haven’t met my soulmate just yet.
Of course, I would have loved to have met my 80% person during those first 90 days, and there were moments when I felt disappointed that it hadn’t happened.
But I don’t look back at the 90 days as a failure.
When I started, I didn’t really know what I was looking for. Within the first week, I had much more clarity. And over the next 90 days, I learned more about myself, my dating patterns, my expectations and the kind of relationship I genuinely want.
I also learned that the journey doesn’t necessarily have to happen according to my timetable.
I haven’t met my soulmate just yet, but I genuinely believe God has me on the right path. 🙏❤️
Maybe the first 90 days weren’t about meeting the person.
Maybe they were about preparing me to recognise the person when the right relationship comes along.
I’ve now started another 90-day journey, and I’m approaching it with a different mindset.
I’m continuing to work on myself, stay open, keep learning and trust God’s timing rather than trying to force an outcome.
Looking back, I’d describe my first 90 days as discovery, clarity, challenge, learning and growth.
The first 90 days didn’t give me the ending I was hoping for.
But they gave me something I needed first:
clarity, perspective, a wake-up call and the opportunity to grow. ☕️
And for that, I’m genuinely grateful.
My story isn’t finished yet.
I’m still on the journey. ❤️🙏








