Firstly, it is worth saying i have met girls off the site that are genuine and are fantastic, and i believe all the profiles are genuine, and the girls are all there for different reasons, some just f... See more
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One needs to be very careful when using…
One needs to be very careful when using Secret Benefits (SB). For those that are researching whether or not they should join SB, males need to buy tokens. Tokens are used to initiate messaging with a woman, respond to a woman that emailed you first, get access to a woman's private photos, and get access to a woman's private answers. From my understanding the woman on SB do not receive any portion on the tokens someone spends to communicate with them.
From my previous experience on SB and this last experience it would seem that many of the women that are on SB are fake. The reason I say this is that a woman, verified or not, will view my profile and send me a message. I will spend 10 tokens to read their message, which is usually a generic message, write them back, and maybe get a response 5% of the time. This from "women" that have viewed my profile and initiated contact. This does not include the countless number of "women" that just favorite me and/or send a message without viewing my profile. Previous experience in replying to these messages have a much less respond rate than messages from "women" that have viewed my profile. These I suspect are bots created by SB in order to have the male members spend and buy tokens.
If you are planning on joining SB I have a few recommendations to help save tokens. Instead of sending a message to a woman favorite her instead and see if she views your profile. Don't open a message from anyone that has not viewed your profile.
Final not is the SB has another site called SugarDaddy.com. This site has all of the same profiles as SB does.
Minimum credits you can buy is 200 (20…
Minimum credits you can buy is 200 (20 messages), which is $89 USD. It used to be 100 credits. They even pretend that it's because they care about you finding a match (and needing all these messages to do it). Such bleeding hearts. Hilarious.
Scam
What a scam they use old profiles and some how the old profiles say they are online,I've spent hundreds of dollars messaged up to 50+ girls and Maybe 3 answered me.
These so called girls will message you then you have to use your credits to open the message up you respond to them and don't answer back,this site should be shut down total SCAM!!
Seems to be full of fake messages, & with fewer features than other sites
This site has fewer features, costs more to use actively, and has more apparent fraudulent female members & messages than other online dating sites I have tried, including the sugar dating site that used to be abbreviated SA and now just S. (I dislike that site a lot, but Secret Benefits is significantly worse.) I have chatted with several women who seem to be nice and attractive. But those have been rare exceptions: Most women send a meaningless message, which I suspect is generated by the website rather than by real women, since many of the messages are identical, something like: "Hi. Get to know me." To read that, one had to spend 10 points. And I have read over a dozen of those and got no further communication once I wrote back (with some uncontroversial statement about myself and no requests or demands). The problem is, the man has to spend 10 points to read this worthless, likely machine-generated message. Same with access to secret photos, as other reviewers have mentioned -- frequently, I've spent 10 points to see photos similar to (and sometimes identical to) the public ones. Often, that means the secret photos don't show her face, either. The shortcomings of the interface for this site are also manifest: There's no indication on profiles whether the woman has children or not or her marital status, which are important considerations for many men, and many of the profiles don't even have basic information like height or body type. The site has a very limited word-count for the descriptions of yourself and what you're seeking, making it hard to provide a full description of either. And on the flip side, there's no minimum word count for the descriptions, unlike on some other sites, and so many of the women's profiles don't even have any words that they've chosen to describe themselves or what they're seeking. There are no time-stamps on messages, so you don't know when she wrote you, or when you replied. There's no way to make notes about a member, unlike on other sites. There's no way to indicate you're not interested in a profile (and so save yourself the time of looking at it again at some point and seeing it in searches over and over again) other than permanently blocking the person. The site is not advertised as having women only from the U.S., but I have not been able to enter any city in the Search form that is not in the U.S. The most dysfunctional aspect of the site is that, when you are looking at a woman's profile (e.g., because she's on your list of women whom you have "Favorited," or on the list of women who've requested to see your private photos, there's no indication whether she has written you before. No indication that she has "Favorited" you, either. As far as I can tell, the only way to determine whether she's already written you is to go back to the Inbox and search through the messages (which are not in an order I can decipher, and definitely don't have all the active conversations at the top), which of course there are dozens or hundreds of, due to the plethora of meaningless, one-line messages. I never thought I'd say this, but the SA site, now just S, although expensive for men is a better deal, with a way more effective interface and with many more real women who are interested in talking and meeting, in my experience.
The Secret Benefits Customer Support…
The Secret Benefits Customer Support Team Completely "Removed" My Entire Profile, Photos, Bio, Everything "Without Any Warning" or "Notice Ahead of Time" Whatsoever! I have sent E-mails to SB Customer Support Team with "NO RESPONSE" From SB Whatsoever!
No response to my emails from this company!!!
I have been on this site best part of two years and met a lot of girls. It has been good. However recently I tried to buy more credits and my card was declined I tried another card same thing happened. I’m not sure why. I have sent a number of messages to their contact helpdesk but not had any reply to any of them. What’s going on???? There used to be occasional messages sent out from them that has stopped. Has something happened to this company ?????????
If I could give this site zero stars ai…
If I could give this site zero stars ai would! SB is the only app I know that saves all your email address and phone numbers so you can never use them to sign up again. The selection of men on there you find on POF, Hinge or Tinder hell maybe even facebook dating just broke trying to get laid. I called the company out for storing peoples personal data and information for forever! I told them no other dating sites do this but you ..they didn’t reply back the company needs to be investigated just for that purpose.
Worth a shot
I think that it is a great dating service and the women are beautiful with hot bodies. Credits instead of monthly fee is an interesting idea. It seems once you start a convo that it stays open, so for those that like to chat a while before meeting will appreciate that.
I signed up because I appreciate older…
I signed up because I appreciate older and accomplished guys but I don’t get as much attention as I want because many are telling me they don’t like my goth look but I have met a few guys that are still wanting to meet.
User friendly and practical dating site
I was admittingly a bit sceptical when i first joined the site. Not knowing what to expect but then over the next few days was amazed how easy it was to chat with some very beautiful babes who messaged me back and have started up some amazing chats with them. Will meet up tonight with my first match tonight so pretty nervous for things to go well.
Don't do it!
£2.70 (at today's exchange rate) to read a message, £2.70 to see if its been read. £2.70 to "boost" the message and £2.70 to see extra pictures - nothing special. What do you get for that? A couple of pictures and "Hello, hru?". You may get a couple more replies a day or so later but then they stop.
As Graham said, most positive reviews on here are from "Ladies". I guess they're trying to appeal to women so that they can build up a decent user base and don't have to rely on administrators to do the work?
Buyer Beware!
Fake scammer site.
I've been a male member on SB under different profiles and different emails for a number of years.... with a goal to identify scammer sites. Despite spending almost £500, not once have I been able to meet anyone, I am a successful, attractive guy, making 6 figures doing what I do, so here is my report on the site.
Girls have multiple profiles.
Photos are often AI generated.
Photos are stolen.
'Verified' profiles claiming to be in the UK are usually American.
A lot of profiles are prostitutes / escorts.
Those that do respond stop responding very quickly even when offering holidays, shopping or trips.
Mobile numbers given are often of scammers or 'business' WhatsApp accounts.
All in all this site is a scam and needs to be shut down.
Additionally, if you notice a lot of reviews for this site are 'girls' claiming to be site members, I can almost guarantee they are fake accounts designed to keep the site ratings on trust pilot high.
traditional, but not traditional.
I’m honestly still getting used to the ins and outs of this type of dating. It is fun but can be very confusing with the guys on here sometimes. It’s supposed to be upfront with what you are looking for but it seems like a LOT of the guys I’m dating from this site have caught feelings beyond the agreement of our relationship very quickly. I get that I’m younger and prettier than many are used to, but it’s kind of a turnoff when they start confessing their love after like a month, haha.
This site is a scam
This site is a scam. It’s just bots responding, not real people. Do not waste your money.
I believe that Secret Benefits is a…scam
I believe that Secret Benefits is a scam. There is no way in the world that all of the girls on the search pages are online all of the time. I believe the girls are bots. I do not believe the girls are real. Or if they are real they are getting paid to have short message conversations with men so the men pay for more coins. I would definitely not recommend that anyone use Secret Benefits. it is a waste of time and a waste of money.
A scam
A scam.
I signed up a couple of months ago.
Every day, attractive women making contact.
To date 180 women. Access granted to their secret photos.
Last night I paid for 500 credits. Previous attempts, the bank blocked payment. Flagged as dodgy website. At least I was warned. I foolishly authorised payment.
This morning, 500 credits already gone. Had I used 500 credits? This I doubt.
10 credits to read and respond to a message. 10 credits to access secret photos.
The messages, trivia, like how are you?
The secret photos, no different to the public photos.
And the responses, once paid the credits? None. OK, a couple responded, then nothing.
The 5* rating on Trust Pilot, appears to be part of the scam.
Be warned, don't pay for any credits.
My experience so far I met one girl
My experience so far I met one girl, i was robbed by one female by the name of Juicey
Most girls who write you and you replied they take 10 credits chances are she will never replied once you replied.
Most girls are full of it , " im loyal to daddy" " or " i just Wana make daddy happy,
It's just all too suspicious
I got an account months ago. I never placed a picture. I wanted to check it out before buying any credits. Then couldn't find a way to get credits in a way that I felt safe. Very quickly started to get favorited and messages. This to me was weird as I didn't think there was anything about my profile that would attract attention especially since it didn't have any pics. I ended up forgetting about it for over a month and just logged in again to browse and found that I am still getting messages. There is no way I would want to buy the amount of credits needed to check out these messages.
I will say, I do see some profiles of ladies with pictures in the area they say they are.
In the end, I find the site to be suspect and too costly. Additionally, if you try to use a visa gift card here, it will get locked up. You'll have to register and call to try and unlock the funds on the card. Why? Cause they say it was an attempt to use it on a suspicious site. So, that just adds to more to the site being suspicious
Update 15Mar.
SecretBenefit has TrustPilot ask for your verification info and then they close your account. LOL!
Mostly scam site
Mostly scam site. There are some authentic users in there that I met in person, but a LOT of the accounts are bot-like (or employees) who will engage you in a conversation requiring you to use credits, and after a few responses they stop responding. Whenever I asked for a phone number, they'd instantly stop responding. I also caught the site multiple times setting some of my public photos to private which requires that other paid users use credits to view photos that I wanted publicly available. I think they're recycling photos and videos from previous users to setup fake accounts, have employees (or bots) start a conversation with you to get you to use up some credits and then vanish after a while. This went on for several months for me before i realized what was happening.
Come on TrustPilot
Come on TrustPilot, you guys are getting duped here on this websites reviews. Look at the names: Samantha, Trevor Simmons, Stewart, Gerald, PoppaD,Yosha, Henry Shiply Every 5 star review of this site, are the same bots making the fake profiles on the website. They have one review on TP, and it just for this site. They also duped me, I got ton of messages, enough that I thought what the heck I'll pay for some credits to reply to the messages. Not a single reply, they also showed my "secret " picture publicly, without telling me, so they're clearly not trustworthy. They also deleted my public description every time I posted a new one, and just put a generic tagline, which I didn't write. The whole site is a complete SCAM, just like their reviews are here. To trick guys into giving them money, and delivering nothing that the site promises.
EDIT: When I messaged customer service, they instantly deleted my account and locked me out, and emailed me saying they were going to refund my money within 10 days.
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