Should have a zero rating
Should have a zero rating
I sent this in a letter to the Holywell Pet Cemetery after taking my beloved Ted there - no reply over two weeks later.
I have just returned home following my visit to say goodbye to my beloved dog, Ted, and I feel compelled to write to you – not out of frustration, but out of deep sadness and disappointment.
I was led to believe that this would be a peaceful, respectful, and heartfelt experience – a dignified farewell for a pet who was not just a dog, but a cherished member of my family for many years. Unfortunately, that is not what I experienced today. (9.6.25)
I was told Ted would be in the chapel of rest, which I expected to be a quiet, serene space where I could spend a few meaningful final moments with him. Instead, I found myself constantly distracted and unsettled by the noise of mechanical activity in the background – a harsh and upsetting reminder of what was going on behind the scenes.
More upsetting still was the conduct of Jason, the staff member who was supposedly assigned to look after Ted. At no point did I feel seen or supported as a grieving pet owner. Jason appeared disengaged, spending most of the time tapping away on a phone or iPad, and his demeanor was anything but compassionate or empathetic. I had already provided all my details over the phone in advance, so upon arrival, the only thing that should have been needed was confirmation of my identity. I cannot understand why Jason was so preoccupied with his device when all the relevant information was already in hand.
The entire experience – which I believed would be a moment of grace and closure – felt rushed, impersonal, and industrial. Ted deserved better. I deserved better. I had expected a service that honoured our bond, not one that made me feel like just another customer in a production line.
They advertise a caring comforting experience. I do not feel that what I received matched what was promised, either in spirit or in quality.
I do want to say that the veterinary team were absolutely wonderful. They treated Ted with such kindness, gentleness, and respect in his final moments, and for that I am truly grateful. Their compassion brought a great deal of comfort at a very painful time. Sadly, what happened at the pet cemetery has cast a long shadow over what should have been a meaningful farewell.
That night, my emotions were painfully mixed. I’m deeply saddened at the loss of Ted – my best friend and loyal companion of 14 years – but that grief is now tinged with a sense of regret and hurt. I feel like I was just part of a machine. Ted was part of a machine. And it felt anything but dignified to have the mechanical processes of your operation blasting in the background while I tried to say goodbye to my beloved pet.
A chapel of rest is exactly that – a place where one can rest in peace. Peace being the operative word. A place for quiet reflection. Not one filled with the banging and clattering of machinery.
It’s for the reasons stated above that I returned to the pet cemetery to collect Ted and give him the dignified send-off that he deserved.
9 June 2025
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