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  1. Adult Dating Service

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HePays has hundreds of members joining every day. We are very big in the findom paypig community. Most Reviews on Review sites are lies and false. The reason is simple. The site has been subject to shitstorms on twitter and people just making lies up because their account has been banned. The only thing which is true is that we have to deal with scammers like any other dating site. Findom means Financial Domination where men give women money without requesting anything in return. The simple fetish of giving money to women


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2.0

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TrustScore 2 out of 5

16 reviews

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Rated 1 out of 5 stars

fake site?

Ï tried to create am account and when I click register, it goes to a different website, about spiritual guidance or something. Unsure if this site is fake/dodgy?

10 February 2025
Unprompted review
Rated 2 out of 5 stars

50/50 but harder to find real paying one's now

About 2 yrs ago this site was good, although I didn't use it often or for long being an Ebony, Nurturing Findomme, it isn't easy to find real Finsubs in the UK let alone London. But it's even harder now with all the fake Dommes & subs out there. It's a shame this site doesn't work anymore, but I guess it's one less platform to get scammed on. I suggest Fetlife & Twitter but do your research & don't get sucked in by the fakes. We have Discord groups for real Finsubs to worship Findomme's & cashmaster's (we have a vetting process for both D/s so it's much less likely to come across fakes) @Pearliep10 is my twitter, approach correctly for more info!

9 November 2021
Unprompted review
Rated 3 out of 5 stars

My opinion

It's ok. Not crazy about it but seen worse. IMO also check out Paymedaddy and Seeking. Both sites work just fine.

8 February 2021
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Domme - no luck

When first using this site I was approached by mainly users who weren’t serious. I never did receive the money back for the credits I had when leaving the site.

I am a Domme and my kik is modestmere for anyone who may be serious and didn’t have luck on the site as well.

17 August 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 3 out of 5 stars

I didn’t mind this website :-/

I am a Domme, (kik: puffypeachpetite), and I actually had some success with subs from Hepays.com ... so I was a little confused when I went to login (for the first time since the pandemic) & realized that it has been shut down.

I’m a little annoyed that I never got my money back for whatever credits I purchased... and I didn’t even receive any information that the website was closing :(

BUT such is the world of SW. I hope some of my old subs see this review & say hello !

13 July 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

I'm glad this website is shut down

I'm glad this website is shut down, because I have never spoken to a real female on there. It's just a bunch of guys cat fishing from other countries, specifically the UK. I wonder why the UK is so popular when it comes to Findom.

3 July 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

This site reveals your personal information

I deleted my page over a month ago for lack of legit and serious users. Well most recently, I received a message from a so called member of their site who should have never had access to my personal number. I only used my personal number to verify my identity and was told that it was 100% confidential and safe. Thank God I never added any of my financial information to purchase any of their services. The owner is nothing but a scam artist who tries to mask himself as some elaborate match maker. This site should be taken down and sanctioned for all the people it has hurt/inconvenienced.
UPDATE: The owner of the site knows most of the negative reviews left about his site are 100% accurate which is why he feels the need to be extremely defensive instead of trying to address actual issues and concerns.

6 June 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Never get your money back!

When you load credits onto this site you are NEVER able to withdraw them. You also can get in trouble for sharing them! The owner has deleted accounts when he found out the credits were sent from another member. I have screenshot of this!

The owner makes site after site after site and advertises it on HePays. He then shuts down those sites when they don't make money quickly enough. I also have screenshots of this! This is AFTER encouraging women to upload their PHOTO ID numbers!! Again, I have screenshots of this.

The owner insults the members often. He will I sult people directly and in general. I have screenshots of this. Once deleting members he will then belittle then on his platform. (Yes, Danji I have the screenshots.)

He says he will sell the website at least once a year. This means all of your information for sale to the highest bidder!

I would give this site 0/0 stars if I could.

5 June 2020
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Not worth the effort or the credits you will never get back.

Account was deleted within minutes of responding in solidarity to a BLM post without warning. After 2 years on the site witnessing countless acts from others that went against
TOS without such swift action as it did not affect the owner personally. It would have been more professional to discuss the deletion of my account with me or even let me know it was happening. My account credits were also taken without my knowledge or allowing me to transfer them accordingly. There are way better and more inclusive sites out there. I’m relieved to no longer be associated with such a place.

5 June 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 1 out of 5 stars

Owner is flagging all bad reviews. Search HePays on twitter!

This site is a SCAM.
Owner bashes members publicly.
All the money you put into it goes to HIM, nothing goes to any of the members.
Search HePays on twitter, and see all the horrible screenshots.
He is a creep who tries to stalk bisexual girls and begs them to visit him in Spain.
He POORLY runs the account and is involved in all the drama that the site had.
Completely horrible and unprofessional.

4 June 2020
Unprompted review
Rated 2 out of 5 stars

IVE BEEN ON THE SITE AND SOME HOW HAVE…

IVE BEEN ON THE SITE AND SOME TIME NOW AND NOT SURE HOW IVE ACCUMLATED MINUS POINS - SAYING IM "LOW TRUST. BEWARE. MIGHT BE FAKE." DESPITE BEING A REAL PERSON!!
IM YET TO ENCOUNTER REAL LEGIT SUGAR DADDIES/MEN WHO ACTUALLY PAY LOL. HAVENT PAID ANYTHING ON THERE YET WAS GOING TO KNOW AND SEE IF IT WOULD BENEFIT ME. SEEMS NOT. SEEMS JUST TO MAKE THE CREATORS WALLET FATTER.?? WOMEN SEEM TO BE REAL BITCHY AND THEN THERE IS THE POSTS FROM NIGERIA ETC. YEHHHH GOOD ONE. IN CONCLUSION YOU BETTER OFF STARTING A TWITTER ACCOUNT OR SOMETHING. THANKS

5 November 2019
Unprompted review

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